Thank you for the additional information (and for posting your suggestions in the Feature Requests forum thread).
Cannot delete, requires Admin. Priv.
Are you using JuiceboxBuilder-Pro under an Windows Administrator User Account?
If not, what happens if you do?
Rebooting seems to relieve those local restrictions and allow deletion.
As I'm sure you're aware, rebooting should not change file permissions or attributes.
Maybe the problem has something to do with a program having a temporary lock on certain gallery files.
Check that you do not have any gallery files open in any programs (such as the 'index.html' file being open in a browser or the 'config.xml' file being open in a text editor or any gallery images being open in an imaging program) when you re-save the gallery.
(when I FTP the gallery to my website all I get is the spinning icon, no images, and no evidence of the edited option icons having changed. No delete restrictions on my webhost.)
When editing the gallery, if all you are doing is changing configuration options, then the only file you should need to update on your website is the 'config.xml' file (overwriting the existing version). There is no need to re-upload or overwrite the images or thumbnails.
This might not help to resolve your problem but it might help if you need to update a gallery on your website (as long as the image entries in the 'config.xml' are not somehow changed or removed).
Maybe you could upload a couple of sample zip files so that I can investigate further. Even if I'm unable to find the source of the problem, I might at least have a better understanding of what's happening to your gallery folder after re-re-saving your gallery.
If possible, create a sample gallery and then zip the entire gallery folder and upload it somewhere (and provide a link so that I can download it).
Then, edit your gallery, re-save it and zip the gallery folder again (and upload the new zip file so that I can compare the two).
(I'll delete the links once I've downloaded the zip files if you like.)
Once I'm able to see the gallery folder before and after the edits you make, I might be able to figure out what's going on.
It appears some of my issues are due to cache images and files. I deleted them and my buttons are what I want now. I don't know why refreshing my browser on a page doesn't clear this up, however.
Sometimes refreshing a web page is not enough to force the browser to reload the page from the server (and you might need to completely clear the cache manually to be sure that you're seeing the changes that you've made).
Please also see this FAQ:
When I update my gallery I don't see my changes online. Why?
If I try to rename the gallery top directory I am not allowed as some lower level file is open in another application.
If you are editing an existing gallery, then I've not known JuiceboxBuilder-Pro to prevent you from renaming the gallery folder whilst the gallery is open in the application (but I'd not recommend it) so perhaps the problem is, indeed, due to a gallery file being open in another program as I suggested above (so please double-check that you do not have any gallery files open in any other programs when you re-save the gallery).
I hope these notes help.